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Calendars and connection, built for polyamorous life.

PolyPicker helps you coordinate schedules across every partner, keep relationship agreements clear, and — if you're looking — find compatible people based on real availability and interests.

What we're building

One calendar, every partner

Connect Google, iCloud, and Microsoft calendars and see real free/busy overlap across everyone you coordinate with — no more group-chat scheduling threads.

Agreements, not assumptions

Write down what you and your partners have actually agreed to — check-ins, boundaries, veto or no-veto, disclosure preferences — in one place everyone can reference.

Discovery for solo-poly

If you're looking for (a) partner, find people based on real compatibility signals: availability, relationship structure, and what you're each looking for — not just a photo grid.

This community deserves real privacy

We know relationship structure and dating data is sensitive. Here's what we commit to before we've written a line of app code.

No data selling. Ever.

We do not sell your data to third parties, data brokers, or advertisers. Full stop.

Not used to train AI models

Your calendar, relationship, and profile data are never used to train AI models — yours or anyone else's.

Discretion by default

Your polycule structure and relationship details are visible only to who you choose. Nothing is public unless you opt in.

Read the full privacy policy.

Tell us what you need

A few questions help us build the right v1 — scheduling, discovery, or both. Takes about a minute.

Our waitlist form is almost ready. In the meantime, email us at hello@polypicker.com and tell us you want in.

No spam. We'll only email you about PolyPicker access and founding membership.